Just a few minutes after this photo we decided to get into the hot tub. Slowly but surely, the crowd fizzled out as it got later. We were having a few drinks when another couple walked up and asked if they could join. Of course, we obliged đ. Small talk started to ensue and we quickly began chatting about things we had in common. They are from GA and have spent many wkend trips/vacations in similar places as us. The drinks & conversations continuedâŚđ When it comes to connecting with other people/couples in the Lifestyle, these are (general) rules we go by: 1) Attraction. We donât mean this in a pretentious way, but letâs be honestâŚthere HAS to be attraction. Initially, that starts as physical but leads to⌠2) Personality. Personality goes a long way with us. Can they carry a conversation? Are they personable? Do they catch our attention? Personality can greatly increase attraction! 3) DTF. We usually know if weâre DTF before we even hang with someone/a couple in person based on previous chats. If itâs someone/a couple we connect with in a moment, we still apply the same rules. It doesnât take long for us to know. Admittedly, sometimes weâll be DTF and things donât happen. There can be a few reasons for this, but generally speaking we know very quickly if we want to have playtime. Letâs just sayâŚspontaneous (or planned) playtime is an incredibly sexually charged atmosphere we enjoy đ